If you're worried about someone's gambling
If you’ve been affected by someone else’s gambling, you can get help. You might want to:
get emotional support for yourself
talk to them about their gambling problem
get help for them
check if you’re responsible for any debt
get help if you’re struggling with debt
protect money or belongings you share with them
Get emotional support for yourself
Dealing with someone’s gambling problem can be very stressful. Their behaviour can affect your wellbeing - it’s normal to feel anxious, angry or hurt.
You can get support from the charity GamCare. Find out how to get support on the GamCare website.
Talk to the person about their gambling problem
It can be difficult to start the conversation. You might want to tell them how their behaviour is affecting you and ask them how big the problem is. You can also let them know they can get help.
If the person who gambles makes you feel anxious or threatened, it might be domestic abuse and you can get help. You can find out more about domestic abuse.
Get help for the person who gambles
You can get support to help them with their gambling problem, including advice on how to:
limit how much they gamble
deal with debt
get mental health support
Check if you’re responsible for debt
You’ll only be responsible for debt that’s in your name. If the debt is in someone else’s name, you’re not responsible for paying it back.
If you have a credit card with the person who gambles
If you have a joint credit card, you’ll both be responsible for any debt. Your credit rating can also be affected by the other person’s actions, because you have a financial link to them.
If you’re an authorised additional cardholder on someone else’s credit card account, you’re not responsible for the debt. Any debt will be the responsibility of the main cardholder.
If you’re not sure whether you have a joint credit card or you’re an additional cardholder, you can check with the credit card company.
If you have a joint loan with the person who gambles
You’ll both be responsible for those debts. Your credit rating can also be affected by the other person’s actions, because you have a financial link to them.
Get help if you’re struggling with debt
You should start dealing with your debts as soon as you can.
You can contact your bank or the company you owe money to and explain the situation. They might give you more time to pay or say you don’t have to pay some of the debt.
If you don’t have enough money to live on, check if you can get help to pay for living costs.
Protect money or belongings you share
You should keep an eye on your finances - you might not know how big the problem is.
If you have a joint benefit claim and the person who gambles gets the money
You might be able to split the payments so the other person can’t gamble with your money.
You’ll need to ask the organisation that pays your benefits - this might be the Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) or HMRC. You can contact them using the details on any letters or emails you’ve got about your benefits.
If you own your home jointly with the person who gambles
If the person who gambles is in debt, they could be forced to sell their share of your home to pay them off. This could mean you have to leave your home, even if the debts aren’t in your name.
If you’re worried about this, you can contact the people they owe money to. Explain the situation and tell them what the person who gambles is doing to tackle the problem.
Some companies might give you more time to pay or say you don’t have to pay some of the debt.